Honestly, what’s the worst outcome in any scenario with a woman you desire? That she will turn you down and say no. It’s a word that most men will take with them their entire lives. We try, fail and then move on. Seriously, if you want to be successful with the ladies, you need to know how to take these rejections for granted. Never let it get to you, because rejection is just a part of life. Or in other words: “Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly”.
Once you understand, digest and acknowledge this simple rule, you can proceed to the top 5 pick up tricks to pick up oh so many girls.
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1. MAKE EYE CONTACT BEFORE THE APPROACH
Want an easy way to see if your approach will be successful? Try making preliminary eye contact from a distance and see how she responds. If she holds your gaze — or even better, if she smiles — go talk to her. If she avoids your gaze, on the other hand, your chances are slim.
Also, don’t forget to do your “research.” Survey the area and you’ll notice which women are looking to meet someone. This is covered in depth in this ultimate pick up guide.
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2. DON’T EXPRESS INTEREST IN BOTH HER & HER FRIENDS
Hitting on more than one woman in the same social circle is a real deal-breaker. Not only will it make you seem like a player, but you are forgetting one important factor: In order to successfully pick up a woman, you have to make her feel special. Hitting on or expressing interest in her friends will certainly not make her feel special. So even though you might be attracted to more than one woman in the group, pick a woman and stick with her. The alternative is that you’ll be going home alone.
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3. MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE’S THE HOTTEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD
Often, a woman will go for a man for only one reason: how he makes her feel. So if you make her feel like the most beautiful girl in the room, chances are she’ll want to see you again. This will work in your favor in the long run too; if she’s confident and comfortable with you, you’ll reap the benefits in all aspects of the relationship. This rule does come with one warning clause: Skip it if she appears to have a big ego already, as you don’t need to over-inflate it.
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4. NEVER USE CLICHE, PRE-PACKAGED PICKUP LINES
Never, ever do this. Using a cliche line will do one of two things: It will either make you look like you’re trying too hard, or it will make you seem inexperienced with women (which is even worse). Instead, keep it simple and just try to be sincere. Yes it sounds cliche, but just being yourself is really the best advice. Think of any girl you approach as if she was an old friend. Try to just be comfortable with yourself and your surroundings – this will give you confidence and nothing is more attractive to a woman than a confident guy. You’ll cut through the formalities and stand out from all the men who do use lines on women — and yes, there are many who still do.
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5. APPROACH HER IN PLACES OTHER THAN BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS
In a bar or a nightclub, a woman is used to being approached by men, and she’ll have her guard up. What this means is that she may reject you simply because you approached her right after a man who annoyed her, or because you were last in a long line of men to talk to her. Furthermore, in nightclubs, as women are expecting to be picked up, they form a defensive shield against unwanted men. This will obviously work against you.
If you approach her in other places, though, you have the element of surprise to your advantage. In a supermarket or a coffee shop, for example, she won’t be expecting to get picked up and might be pleasantly surprised by your gesture. Having said all that, do be mindful of approaching a woman who is shopping in sweatpants and appears in a rush — she probably won’t make the best audience.
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